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When Words are Not Enough
Thank you gifts
When words are not enough
By Maureen B. Aikins
Perhaps Shakespeare summarized
gratefulness best when he said:
“I can no other answer make, but, thanks, and thanks.” If Shakespeare found
it difficult to express thankfulness, is it any wonder the rest of us find
it challenging?
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Engraved items like these personalized soaps and cutting board are
memorable thank you gifts for clients |
A spirit of gratitude
is essential in real estate because we rely so heavily on referrals and
word-of-mouth to remain productive. After all of the showings, meetings
and negotiations are done and the last paper signed, many REALTORS® believe
that sending a thank you gift helps show their appreciation for the client.
Of course, a gift alone
is inadequate. We should demonstrate gratefulness on a daily basis by letting
our clients know through words and actions that we exist as REALTORS® because
of them; we are here to serve.
OK, maybe that’s on our
best day. Maybe more frequently we show or at least think frustration:
“You’re asking for what as a concession!?” Or impatience: “You want
to see how many more houses!?” But when all is said and done, we want
our clients to feel appreciated for the business they have given us and more
practically, to remember us when real estate services are needed again.
So how are some Raleigh-area
REALTORS® doing
this? The answers are as varied as we are.
What to send to whom
Mandy Becker, a REALTOR® and
owner of Swagger Gifts in Cary promotes functional items as the most likely
to be appreciated. Many of the gifts her company supplies are taken to
closing and hand-delivered. A personalized cutting board, set of wine glasses
or a Christmas ornament are all popular choices, as are monogrammed soaps,
note cards, stamps or embossers.
“The key with items like this is to provide something unique and useful,” Becker
says. “The most successful gift of this type will be something the recipient
uses again and again and hopefully, thinks of us when they do.”
Becker adds she knows
a gift has made a positive impact when the recipient actually calls her
to say how lovely it was and this has happened on more than one occasion.
One year, a REALTOR® client of hers gave Christmas ornaments
personalized with the address of their new home to all of her clients. One
of these clients called Swagger just to say how much she enjoyed the ornament.
Many agents select a particular gift to be sent to all of their clients,
Becker says, but what can make each one unique is personalization or engraving.
Others feel that a decadent gift for the sweet-tooth carries the most clout.
Phyllis Brookshire of Allen Tate Co. Inc. sometimes uses Whimsical Cookies
in
Cary to handle her gifts.
“Whimsical cookies have become my trademark and who doesn’t love a delicious
homemade cookie?” Brookshire asks.
Traci Glass, owner of Whimsical Cookies, can pair an agent up with a signature
treat that can be sent for all of his or her significant events.
“I order everything online with Traci,” Brookshire says. “For
birthdays, I send her the list at the beginning of the year. For appreciation
gifts, I email her whenever I need to send a gift.”
Yet another option is
to give a client an “experience,” such as gift certificates
for a spa, pedicure or restaurant, or tickets to a show or sporting event.
“I like to do this for special occasions when I can,”
Brookshire says. “I think it reminds them that I care about the relationship
and that I like to have fun.”
The amount spent on thank
you gifts varies as well. The most common estimate is between $25-50 per
gift, but there are options both below and well-above this figure. REALTORS® say
the dollar value is less significant than the thought involved and appropriateness
is everything. Some gift recipients may be uncomfortable with a gift they
feel is too expensive or elaborate, and they may question our motives or
even worse, our commission rates.
Mollie Owen of Hodge
and Kittrell Inc. Realtor likes to give truly personal gifts. “Most of
my clients are either friends or referrals from friends. I shop for each
gift individually and make it special.”
She recalls selling a home to a couple who were about to have a baby. One
parent was a
Carolina fan, the other pulled for State. Owen bought two baby outfits,
one from each school, to give as closing gifts and the couple adored them.
When to send a gift
Some
REALTORS® maintain
a database with everything from birthdays, anniversaries and other major
life-milestones for all their clients and use it for their mailings. And
some simply send a gift along with updated contact information on the anniversary
of their closing date. Some agents give a gift to thank someone for a referral.
Grayson Hodge and others at RE/MAX Preferred
Associates take a slightly different approach to thank you gift giving. They
all make a charitable donation in honor of a client at closing.
“Every agent contributes to the Children's Miracle
Network on every closed transaction,”
Hodge says. “The gifts are in honor of our clients and range from $5-35 per
closing. They go to Duke Children's Hospital in our area.”
Yes, gift-giving can
become a job in itself. With our busy personal and professional lives,
it’s sometimes difficult to set aside time for things
like gift-giving. So, some REALTORS® choose to use an assistant to help manage,
select, purchase, wrap and deliver their gifts. This assistant can be someone
you hire on your own or possibly an employee of the gift company you chose.
Many gift vendors will organize your recipient list and calendar for you
and delivery your gifts in a timely manner.
You’re probably not going to believe this, but my doorbell just rang and
it was the package delivery woman. I signed for a small box and opened – to
my delight – a beautifully packaged box of Jacques Torres chocolates sent
by a client as a thank you gift.
I must say that at this moment I feel truly valued. Excuse me while I indulge
in a moment of sugary bliss.
(Aikins is a free-lance writer living in
Greensboro,
NC.)
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